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WHAT IS LOVE?



What is love?

People have thousands of answers to it. But no one can really define it. Many have tried to describe it based on a feeling they experienced, but i can tell you: Love is not a feeling. Love is a decision that we make.



Love, don't come and go; love stays and commits itself to one person through the good and through the bad. Without commitment, love ceases to exist.

Many of us have beliefs about love and romance which actually prevents us from making intelligent choices when it comes to love.



But the truth is, Romance is not enough to make a relationship work. What will get we through the tough times are compatibility and commitment that we both share together. A good foundation and strength will make a marriage last. Romance is simply the icing on the cake that is already wonderfully delicious.



True love happens after time has passed, after you have seen the good and the not so good parts about your partner and vice versa. It takes just a moment to experience infatuation or lust, but true love takes time. That is what makes love so much more special and rare, it simply does not happen that quickly.




In love, your partner may fulfill many of your needs, but certainly not all of them. No one is or should be held responsible for making you feel complete. If you feel emotionally empty before you enter a relationship, you will feel just as empty once you are in it. Be happy with yourself and who you are first and foremost, before you enter any relationships.

To wind up I can say, that love is not a feeling you feel but it is a decision you make, which requires time and true commitment.


Thank You...

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